Trigger warning: homophobia, anxiety, family issues As an ally to the trans community, I'm aware of the privileges I hold as a cisgender woman. However, as a queer black woman raised in a Christian household run by an overbearing father, I've had my own struggles that coincide with embracing one's true identity. I hid my previous long-term relationship (with a cisgender woman) from my parents for the entire duration of three years. I wasn't ready to express my queerness with my immediate family. By then, I had at least three negative experiences with my father when it came to queerness: 1. I was 18 and had just joined Facebook. I had a public profile, and I was a fan of a page called Lesbian Cafe, which was also a blog I followed at the time. My father came across my page and found it on my list of interests, and confronted me about it. He was very concerned about my "image" and having certain things on my page. He angrily asked me if I was a heter
My name is Shawnon Corprew, and I've been a volunteer for TAP VA since January of 2018. I'm a writer and proofreader, so I help a lot with editing grant applications and other materials. I've also helped with tabling at events. I'm an ally, and a driving force beside my husband, Jay Corprew. He is my constant inspiration. As a board member, Jay is constantly coming up with ideas to extend TAP VA's resources. He's contacted many companies, and was able to get essential items donated to the community, such as skin care products, binders, and even TAP-exclusive coupon codes for some online stores. As a trans man of color, Jay knows about the struggles firsthand. As his wife of 1 1/2 years, I've seen the many hardships he's faced, and I know of what he went through concerning coming into his true identity before meeting me. He knows strength beyond anyone else I know. Jay is a light within the community. He's spoken at medical and trans inc